Brushy Creek Journal
Friday September 16, 2016
Partly Cloudy 92°F/33°C in Cedar
Park, Texas 78613
Thundershowers 82°F/28°C in Roma, Lazio, Italia 00128
Buongiorno,
Deep down in my
Facebook Profile there must be something that screams out Senior
white male, divorced, lives alone with companion animal.
Interested in meeting attractive young lady of diverse ethnicity. Well
traveled, interesting career background, independent means! Now as anyone who visits my profile page can
attest, that’s not what I wrote. I am NOT looking to get married again (Been
there, done that – TWICE!), or even thinking about embarking on a deep and meaningful relationship!. And
yet, occasionally, I will see a pretty face in my inbox with a request to be on
her Friends List on Facebook or
Twitter or Google Plus etc. The pretty face that I’m talking about in this blog
has appeared in my Friends inbox any
number of times, always under a different name.
My New "Friend!" |
Deep down, I am
hoping to grow my list of followers for my Blog (MikeBotula.blogspot.com) and my web site, and the other
social media venues. I’m also working to encourage my Friends to buy my new book, LST
920: Charlie Botula’s Long, Slow Target! Published by Amazon Books, it’s being sold by
Amazon.com, Barnes and Noble and Booktopia (In Australia). Like the radio and
TV broadcaster that I used to be, now that I’m a writer, I’d like to build my
new audience – people who love to read!
Facebook and the
social media also enables me to stay in touch with my friends from my lifetime
of wanderings. Being new to Texas, I am embarked, once again on restarting my
life. Which means that I have started all over again finding a place to live
followed by: a grocery store, a doctor and dentist, a gas station, some places
to walk Lola, my poodle, and some new friends to hang out with. It takes time
to put down roots. I know. I’ve done it a dozen times! Sometimes, I plan this.
Other times, life happens. (Catch my
drift?).
So then. Back to
my personal observation that you do meet some very
interesting people on Facebook. I’m also aware of the fact that there are some hustler
types out there on social media trying to entice others with promises of wealth
and passion beyond description. Most of these folks seem to be based in West
Africa. (NOW, you’re catching on).
And they are definitely not old high school chums who are trying to
reconnect. I think that’s the case with the young lady who has sent me numerous
Friend Requests, each time using a
different name. I’ve gotten requests with the same face attached, albeit with
different poses from this same woman calling herself variously: Better May, Anita Better May, Crystal
Sureline, Hamdiya Mun, Suzzy Williams, Vonica Herry and, the list goes on.
My friends in
law enforcement (and believe me, as the former News Secretary for the
As "Crystal Sureline!" |
First of all,
don’t reflexively accept the Friend
Request! Check the person out first. I usually look at the list of mutual friends. Then I click on the
sender’s Facebook page and check out their Friends
list, the About section, and the Check-ins. If the wannabe friend was
born in Texas, but now lives in Accra, Ghana, keep moving. If there is very
little or no
information on the person’s page, I pass. I also don’t even bother
with requests where there is not even a profile picture. Some FB fans may
assume that they are protecting their privacy, but most likely there is is No There There! Kapisch? Frequently, the
evildoers will resort to hacking someone’s Facebook page, and steal the real
owner’s Profile picture. So when you get a message from your friend that asks, Have you heard the good news? Or have you gotten your federal grant yet? Call
your friend or private email them and let them know they’ve been hacked. And,
the first time they ask you for money so a doctor can treat them for Malaria,
or make a donation to their church, or they are trying to scrape the money
together for funeral expenses for their late mother in Mali, pull the plug!
They’ve got a “live one” and you are headed to the poor house.
As "Sandi Tomsen!" |
Use your
internet tools to help you check out your new friends. I am a serial Google-er! I also subscribed to a background check
service called Been Verified! Nothing
like it if you want to know if the guy who’s asked your youngest daughter out
on a date has any drunk driving arrests. A lot of these resources are well
known to old newsguys like me, but, even so, we occasionally wind up on the
losing side of this game ourselves. But, I’ll save those stories for another
blog.
Let’s get back
to Better May, Anita Better May, Crystal
Sureline, Hamdiya Mun, Suzzy Williams, Vonica Herry et al for just a
moment, because I think I finally know who she is. And I owe my discovery to a
combination of Google and my own dumb luck. A few days ago I got a Friend Request from a lady calling
herself Sandi Tomsen. Ms. Tomsen looked familiar, so I dug a
little further. Sure enough, Sandi Tomsen
was also Better May, Anita Better May,
Crystal Sureline, Hamdiya Mun, Suzzy Williams, and Vonica Herry! Oh Joy! My
mystery beauty has crossed my path yet again. Before I responded, I copied her
photo onto my Females on Facebook File
to join another couple of dozens of JPEGs of the same lady striking different
poses under different names. (Hmmmm! I wonder if the real people behind this
little deal knew that their “Star” would wind up in a blog on internet scams?)
Then…..and here’s the dumb luck part….
I right-clicked on the photo and clicked again on the Search for this image on Google option. Bingo! Up came yet another name! Same pretty girl, but now
she was Aria Giovanni – an adult
actress and model with her own web site and live chat room. Hmmm! The mystery
continues. All I have to show for my research efforts is a string of phony
names and a lot of pictures of the same pretty girl.
What I did
learn from this experience is how to better protect oneself from people of
ill-intentions on the internet. I’m still learning how to take advantage of
search engines like Google. For instance, if your new Facebook friend sends you
a love note or poem that
makes your heartstrings quiver, do this. Highlight and
copy the text. Then paste it into the search engine. It will work like that
anti-plagiarism software used by colleges and universities. Bang! Zoom! You’ll find out in a
heartbeat whether the Flirty-Gertie on
the other side is the original author or copying Lord Tennyson or Shakespeare.
And now I know the same thing works for photos. I tried it on one of my own
pictures, and it responded with the words Senior
Citizen. True enough, but a little short of the mark.
Actress Aria Giovanni |
So, after all
that, I’m no closer to a meaningful friendship with my wannabe Facebook Friend than I was when I first
got a Friend Request from Better May/Anita Better
Ciao,
MikeBo
[Mike Botula is the author of the wannabe best-seller LST 920: Charlie Botula’s Long, Slow
Target! (Amazon Books) MikeBo’s Blog is a wholly owned subsidiary of
his web site www.mikebotula.com , and is linkedto Facebook, Twitter and Google Plus!]
© By Mike Botula 2016